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Steps to Self Love and Self-care this Valentines day.

Self-love is the practice of taking care of your own emotional, physical, and mental well-being. It is about understanding and accepting yourself for who you are, and recognizing your own worth and value. Practicing self-love means engaging in activities that make you feel good, and taking the time to prioritize your own needs. This could include anything from eating healthy, exercising, getting enough sleep, spending time with friends and family, engaging in hobbies, and setting boundaries. Self-love is essential for a healthy and balanced life.

This valentines day, choose to love yourself, self love is like the liberating truth, if you haven’t valued and loved yourself how will you attract the right relationship? If you are already in a relationship, make sure you know your worth and space in life, and do not drown yourself for another when you Awaken after a few years in consciousness you realize a lot of time has gone and you need to rebuild yourself.

This month is all about Love whenever valentines day comes around, it seems like only this is a day which is spl, of course, it is a day

Here are  steps to Self Love and Self-care.

1.    Don’t compare yourself to others – To stop comparing yourself to others, it is important to focus on your own progress and accomplishments. Remind yourself that everyone is different and that comparison is not a productive or healthy way to measure your own success. Instead, focus on your own goals and work to achieve them. Celebrate your successes and learn from your mistakes. Lastly, practice self-compassion and remind yourself that you are enough.

2.    Detox from others’ opinions.

–       Focus on yourself – Take time to reflect on what you want and need, and don’t let other people’s opinions influence your decisions.

–       Practice self-care – Take care of your physical and mental health.

–       Set boundaries – Let people know what you are and are not comfortable  with when it comes to their opinions.

–       Avoid negative people – Surround yourself with people who support and encourage you, instead of those who put you down.

–       Speak up – Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself and your beliefs, even if others do not agree with them.

–       Make All the Mistakes you want.

–       Your value is not restricted to how you look

–       Let Go of Toxic people and relationships.

3.     Accept your Fears: Accepting your fears can be a difficult process, but it is an important step towards overcoming them. Start by recognizing and acknowledging your fear. Take some time to reflect on why you are feeling fear and where it is coming from. Once you have identified the source of your fear, take a moment to sit with it and accept it. Remind yourself that fear is a normal emotion and that it is okay to feel it. You can then begin to work through your fear by challenging it and developing strategies to cope with it. This could include talking to a friend or professional, engaging in relaxation techniques, or trying exposure therapy.

4.    Make better decisions for yourself:

-Set clear goals and objectives for yourself.

– Identify what is important to you and prioritize accordingly.

– Consider the consequences of your decisions before making them.

– Seek advice from trusted sources.

– Look at the big picture and develop a plan of action.

– Make sure to take care of yourself physically and mentally.

-Take time to reflect on your decisions and their outcomes.

– Learn from your mistakes and don’t be afraid to get going again.

So Go Ahead this year make it a point to love yourself and work on your own inner self, get ready for your time with self-care and pampering and release the old energies, and work on newness. Sit down and release old relationships and stop involving yourself in complicated situations. That is all that I pray for you this year, Happy Valentine’s day with self-love and care.